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You can call me a shy-socialite. I'm a cool person that loves to have fun... caring, humble, humorous, etc... Fashion + setting trends is my thing... my niche... my passion... I'm a socialite:: What did u expect?

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Monday, April 30, 2007

STRESSED... time for an Hiatus

I think I need an hiatus... even though I don't really update like that, I'm REALLY not gonna update.

I just got a lot on my mind

Not to mention, finals are coming up and that just adds on to that stress...

All I have to think about is... this school stuff is gonna pay off, I'm gonna be making money out the bank... finals are almost over... 1 more week and 2 days and it's OVER... I have a 3 week vacation... AHH I can't wait!!!

Here's something to lighten the mood...

If it doesn't work.... LINK

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

No Words for these videos... (LMAO)

If nothing shows up (because youtube and blogspot is on that other stuff... click the link HERE )

OH and I was in my communication's class and my teacher was talking about this thing called Flash Mobs. What it is is people connect on the internet and decide to get together at a random place. Mind you that these people have never met each other. So they show up to this random place, do something random and out of the norm.... THEN, after it's all done, they fall on the ground, wait for about 5 seconds, then get up and go on about their business like nothing happened... it's pretty weird and funny at the same time. There was one in California awhile back where about 100 people (I think) had on their iPods and was randomly dancing, to music in their headphones, while people, not knowing what was going on looked at them as if they were crazy lol... I can't find it on youtube, but here is one...

Like I said... youtube and blogspot are on that other stuff with the HTML working together, so if nothing showed up (which I'm pretty sure it didn't, click the link HERE

Thursday, April 19, 2007

I Need a CHANGE!!

Soo... my layout is really blah and boring to me!! I tried to google templates for blogger, but none of the HTML seems to function right... BUMMERSSS!! I need something PINK and/or PURPLE... if anybody can help me out, it would be greatly appreciated... or even a tutorial to how to make them. I'm pretty advanced with HTML, so whatever works, I'm good...

OOOH and I updated my "Sista Socialite's iPod Rotations" sections... I think I'm a bit of a music fan!! lmao


This is a video released that was recorded by the VA Tech killer... VERY DISTURBING!! Link

I did find a template and how to do it YAY!! So it'll be up either tonight or tomorrow afternoon... KUDDOS TO MMEE!! lol SO if while you're reading this it looks are crazy... I'm still working on it! NOTICE HOW MY PROFILE JUST MAGICALLY DISAPPEARED!! lol

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

Some Eye Candy!!

+::+A Little Eye Candy...+::+

Some of the sexiest men in the entertainment industry (sport, music & film) in my opinion (this is a pure sign of boredom) ENJOY!

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Ok so I admit, I've had this long time crush on Tyrese... something about dark chocolate lmao. I don't care if ppl be messing with his lips cause they're ashy sometimes... I can work with that :)

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When B2K came out, I must admit, Omarion was not my favorite. I liked the light skinned thug type dudes back then (I know I know, redic) and I just thought Omarion was too sweet for my liking... I LOVED me some Raz-B hahaha. Now Omarion is solo and is all grown up and I've grown to appreciate a romantic guy. Omarion is it!

Michael Ealy
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Since Barber Shop 1 & 2... He's just sexy!

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Neo-Soul Eye Candy 4 ya

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No words... I mean, LOOK AT HIM!!

Bobby Valentino
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BOBBY V!!!! I love it!!! And he's my height **BONUS** LMAO

Trey Songz
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He has that thugish thing to him that I like.. Trey Songz is my second boo :) I'm not down with the braids anymore, but somewhere, somehow... he can pull it off.

Reggie Bush
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Football never looked better!!! I never really cared for Reggie Bush until now... boy oh boy oh boy! lol

Monday, April 16, 2007

Deadliest Campus Shooting EVER at VA Tech

This is definately a sad Monday. Earlier today a man (it has been confirmed if he's a student or not) came to the campus of Virginia Tech and killed 32 people, 21 wounded the story is here. (This story has not been updated though because they were still counting the bodies, the 32 people, 21 wounded is an update)

I pray for the families and friends associated with deceased today. It's said that this is the deadliest shooting in U.S. history. Even though VA Tech is about 4 hours away, it's so close to home just being that Virginia is surrounding D.C. and I think I know someone that goes to that school... I'll have a later update on that one once I find out.

This definately isn't a good look to this area. First it was the snipper shooting in Maryland and then this. The high crime rate in D.C. doesn't make it any better... this is definately tragic...

Friday, April 13, 2007

Crazy 3:30am morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let me tell ya'll what crazy ish happened to me at 3:30 in the morning!! ok, let me give you the small info right quick. Oka, I'm in college and I live in a dorm. I share a room with someone and she went home for the weekend yesterday so I had the room to myself... okay here's my story...

Okay, usually when she leaves and I'm alone in the room, when I go to bed I tend to lock the door cause you know I'm alone so if some huge deeboe lookin crazy person just walks into the room, I can't defeat it lmao. The ONE TIME that I don't lock my door, some crazy ish happens...

Okay, it's freakin 3:30 am and I open my eyes cause I hear the door open (I'm SOO glad I'm not a heavy sleeper) and this chick walks over to me (mind u... I don't know who the hell this girl is! SHe don'tm live on my floor or anything) Okay, so she lifts my blanket up off of me and is like "Where's the flax number? They said you had the number" So I'm thinkin... this bitch is crazy!! (And I don't curse like that but I was pissed... if I was all the way awake, I would have dropped kicked her a**!) So I'm like, "What are you talking about? Who are you? Who are you talking about?" And she's like "I don't know where the number is and they said you have it. I don't know why it's so important it's too late at night, I'm sleepy I dont have time for this!" So she leaves out of my room, but before she leaves the room all the way, she turns the deadbolt so that the lock is resting on the door, just incase she wants to walk back in. This bitch is crazy! So as soon as she left, I went to my door and locked it.

5 MINUTES LATER... Here she goes banging on my next door neighbor's door. I knew it was her, I just knew it... only she would be acting a fool like this. So I'm thinking... she's going to get tired and just stop. HELLLLL NO!! 10 minutes later... still banging on the door and HARD! So another neighbor comes out and is like, "Can you please stop banging on the door, people are trying to sleep" and she's arguing with the girl "No, my boyfriend lives in this room and I have my books in there and I need to get them out" Mind you that I live on an all girls floor, so she was talking crazy. The neighbor was like, "This is an all girl's floor, no boy lives there". The crazy girl swore up and down that she was right talking about "I've lived here for a year, this is an all boys floor!!" The neighbor was like "It says Carla on the door!". The crazy chic looking right at the door "NO IT DOESN'T!!". I come out the door like what the hell is going on??. Then my neighbor comes out (I knew that chic was in there, got that girl banging on the door and won't even open it up to tell her to shut the hell up lol) So I tell the girl to leave or I'm calling the police. Crazy girl looks at the girl that came out the door that she was banging on, rolls her eyes and leaves...

I kid you not... I was NOT dreaming, this really did happen! I was scared for dear life when she came into my room like that, I was thinking to myself... damn, this has gotta be a joke, where's the cameras, am I on MTV's Boiling Points WTF?? lol I dont think she was on drugs cause she looked fine but who knows... crazy people!!! lol

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Getting Personal

So... I got this idea from someone elses blog (iseeyoulookinatme) and he had this long ass survey on his blog lol so i decided to put a little survey on my blog (not the exact one) just so my readers can get to know me a little... not too much lol

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1. Is there someone who you like at the moment?
Yes :)

2. Does that someone know that you like them?
I would hope so

3. Does that person like you back?
Nah... he tells me he hates me all the time (in a joking manner lol)

1. Name- Tiara
2. Ethnicity - African, Indian, Asian---Mix it all together, what do u get? Blacknatinees hahaha
3. Hair color- dark brown with a hint of auburn that I dyed in my hair a year ago
4. Eye color - brown... it gets lighter in the summer (weird huh?)
5. Favorite color- pink!!! and Lavender
6. Glasses - Yes ma'am... im actually going to the eye doctor this saturday to try and get some contacts, If not, those Chanel glasses I've been eyeing online
7. Tattoos - 1 down, 3 more (hidden ones) to go! The one that I have is on my lower back, tribal sun

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(By wonderful 1st tattoo!)

Have you ever:

1. Cut your own hair?
lmao I tried to cut my bangs once... lets just say after my mom was done with me, it looked like the front of my hair was burnt off hahaha

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2. Done something you regret?
Who hasn't... you learn from your experiences though

3. Skipped school?
NEVER!! lmao ok... Senior Skip Day if that counts

4. Bungee-jumped?
One day... somewhere safe

6. Cheated on a test?
Espanol 10th grade

7. Been in a police car?

8. Broken in someone's house?
9. Been Rejected?
ehhh once, he was an idiot

10. Been to a funeral?
One.. R.I.P. Grandpi

11. Used a lighter?
On candles only (Im a big candle lover just in case somebody wanna buy me a gift one day)

12. Been on stage?
OOHh yea... singing, dancing, acting... I love being on stage!


1. Season –Spring only in Atlanta, Georgia... it's nice and warm
2. Food - hmmm...Oxtails mmmmm lol
3. Breakfast-Cheese Eggs and Potatoes; Capt Crunch Berries Cereal
4. Person - DB above all
5. Book – Check out my profile
6. Lake - ehhhh Tahoe?? i dunno lol
7. Sport to watch on TV – OMG... i've gotten into Basketball these past months
8. Name for a son - Malachi
9. Name for a daughter- I want a boy... nuff said lol, maybe Kyla for a girl

Do you prefer:

1. Coffee or Cappuccino?
White Chocolate Mocha baby!

2. Long or short relationships?
ehhh long

3. Scary movies or comedies?
Do I have to choose?? If I had to choose one... comedies. I LOVE a good laugh!!

4. Short or long hair on the opposite sex?
short... braids are out of style dude

5. Fruits or vegetable?

First things that come to mind:

1. Chainsaw – Massacre haha
2. School – hell!
3. Cow - boy
4. Canada – water
5. Mouse - trap?

In the past week have you:

1. Talked on the phone? of course!
2. Watched a movie?hmmm... i don't think so
3. Cried? nah
4. Smoked? ewww how about next question...
5. Drank a glass of water? I try everyday... it dont work
6. Used drugs? nope
7. Read a book or magazine? Cosmopolitan was interesting this month, Vibe, Cosmo Girl, Essense )I'm big on magazines and reading... reading is fundamental for the mind
8. Watched T.V.? I am right now something on MTV
9. Taken a shower? everyday shawty
10. Taken a picture? hmmm... yea
11. Listened to music? Everyday
12. Told someone you loved them? awwww yes ma'am
14. Stolen anything? some lotion from my supervisor

This is FUNNY!! LMAO


--Go to Google.com

--Click on Maps.

--Click on get Directions.

--From New York,New York

--To Paris,France.

--Andd read line # 23.

If you don't laugh, I swear you're weird and have no humor! lol

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Don Imus, T.I., Orlando Brown... DRAMA!

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Picture from Sportiela

Cre8tiveRecreation Cesario Lo in Tiffany/Pink Polka Dots
Soo... anybody wanna buy them for me? They only run to about $79.95 in cash mouwney (The Yo Momma show on MTV... know what I'm talking about? lol) ... But yea... just get all your family together tell them to donate like $5 in the Sista Socialite She Really Broke Fund and we good! Kewl...

+::+What's goin' on?+::+

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Okay I'm concerned... why in the world did mean ole Don Imus get a 2 week suspension from MSNBC (Click the link for the full story). See that's what I'm talking about, one white man can call black women "nappyheaded hoes" and get only a 2 week suspension, but if a black man says something racist on his radio show (and don't let it happen)... he probably expelled for life. We live in an unfair world folks... it's a shame. How about we all get together with "Anti-Don Imus shirts on" go to MSNBC, stand outside the studio... wait wait wait, I'm getting ahead of myself... I just got 50 cent and Tony Yayo flashbacks lmao.

Czar Entertainment needs to get a life by the way... (I'm just sayin, if there's no proof... no pics, no bruises, no nothing, that that kid was "abused"... no dice... Yayo didn't do it!...)


So T.I.... you'll accept some thousands of dollars from Duke University, but when you want to eat and a fan asks for your autograph... you make them wait? See Story Here (Bossip)

Tisk Tisk Tisk... You're a good rapper, but a BAD attitude... this isn't the first you know. I had a friend that simply wanted u to listen to him rap... you can be such a biatch sometimes... Your fans made you and they can definately BREAK YOU!

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Yo... Like really though, what's going on with Disney's That's So Raven cast? I wouldn't be surprised if Raven Simone was in on it lmao. Well... good ole Eddie (Orlando Brown) got arrested for drug charges (See Story Here). If you didn't know already, Chelsea, also from the show, was arrested for the same charges... this is crazy... some role models huh... (I wonder if that show still comes on... I wouldn't know... my cheap school [American University in D.C.] doesn't have the Disney Channel or FX so I can't watch my show Nip Tuck anymore... I need TiVo!!).

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Kelly Rowland is fabulous by the way... if I had to choose between Beyonce and Kelly... Kelly all the way. I can say she has more pzazz than Beyonce, and she's also not a publicity whore... she's got it... she don't need no extra attention put onto her for her new album to be a hit (her song "Like This" ft. Eve is HOT STUFF!)


Soo... Michael Jackson and 50 cent together... a hit?? Ehhh. I guess time will tell. It's said that they might be getting together to lace a track called "Trial of the Century". 50 cent will do anything to be relevant these days lol. He's probably the one that started the whole Yayo mess and won't tell nobody.


I heard Lil Wezzy might be "taking a break" for a while because of "stress". Hm...


Speaking of G-Unit, why do I keep hearing this mess about everyone quitting except Young Buck... I mean, I know Olivia got the "haul ass boot" but eemm... I think that's about it... who knows. With all this mess going on with G-Unit, I'd take the opportunity to take advantage of the publicity and make a couple mill...


BTW... Larry Birkhead, former boyfriend of Anna Nicole is her baby daddy...

+::+Hot Ghetto Mess of the Day+::+

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Tyra... Boo Boo... okay... what's going on with the cheap $1.99 brown gel in ya hair hunny? It's just putting more emphases on the hair line... ok Tyra... work it, but not too much ok?

+::+Video of the Day+::+

First of all....

And then...

What in the greasy lipgloss lookin Morpheus hell?? lol. I couldn't help myself... I was in work ballin on the floor laughing lol

+::+The whole day I was wondering...+::+

Why is Beyonce such a publicity whore? I mean... I love Beyonce, but dang... can I get a 5 minute break before I see her making another video?

This one is cute by the way... (oh and another thing... Solange Knowles doesn't look like she had a baby... where's the baby fat?)

+::+My Life Unfolding...+::+

My life is kind of boring (well, not really, but hey...) lol. Finals are coming up in 3 weeks and that means I'm not going to be able to update as much as I'd like (not like I update everyday anyways, but I would like to update at least 3 times a week... if I can everyday, that's cool, but I work and go to school all day and don't even have enough time to sleep). Anyways I'm rambling on, I'm sure nobody wants to know about my life lol (maybe, who knows). I might delete this part out of my blog unless I have interesting things to talk about ya know? What u think? Do I have enough on one day's blog to talk about myself or should I just keep it strictly entertainment until I myself become famous one day (which will happen... imma be the most famous publicist... I might be working for Didd one day [take that, take that lmao]).

Well time to sign off until next time... I think I did good my first time huh?

Friday, April 6, 2007

Beyonce- Flaws and All

I'm feeling this song in many ways!

Thursday, April 5, 2007

First post!

Okay, so yea... this is my first post. I have a 6 page paper due tomorrow afternoon that I haven't started yet (And its 8:40pm right now), so I can't post anything right now, but this is what you should expect when I get everything running smoothly:

1)Black celebrity gossip (not that I'm bias or anything, but clearly, there aren't that many gossip columns about blacks in tabloids unless they're negative (i.e. Whitney and Bobby) It's rediculous)... I'm not sayin, I'm just sayin... know what I'm sayin?

2) Video of the day- random youtube/myspace videos that I found interesting that day.

3) Hot mess of the day- The title says it all... you gotta laugh sometimes, it's healthy.

4) Question of the day- You know... this mind of mine always has some type of question... some can be answered, some can...

5) Shoes of the day- I LOVE shoes... and you will too after I get through with you (lmao).

6) My life- Ohh yea... my life is just sssooo interesting that I need to write a little bit about it (not really lol) but yea, this is just to update ya'll on what I'm up to and what I'm all about...