And this is WHY I Heart Kanye West...

He's a fool and I love it! lol



Supposedly this is an informercial for Absolute Vodka... and he's being for real. I'd have to say this is the ONLY guy (aside from Pharrell) that I'd say can walk around with a big tote bag and still look fly LOL

Go to http://www.bekanyenow.com/

Since I haven't done a MeMe in a MINUTE, I came across one on Ed the Celeb's site and I had to jack it lol


7 DEADLY Sins...

Anger
1. Who did you last get angry with? My manager Kevin
2. What is your weapon of choice? I'm a lover not a figher haha
3. Would you hit a member of the opposite sex? Yea, not seriously though, although I have before
4. How about of the same sex? umm... why not?? lol nah, but that was back then, I'm too grown for all that seriously
5. Who was the last person who got really angry at you? hmmm... Emmanuel
6. What is your pet peeve? bad hygiene... YUCK
7. Do you keep grudges, or can you let them go easily? I've said this before but after a long argument, I'd probably say something funny and then the mood would be lightened... I've held only one grudge my whole life and it's reasonable believe me


Sloth
1. What is one thing you’re supposed to do daily that you haven’t done in a long time? Eat healthy... its hard being a waitress
2. What is the latest you’ve ever woken up? probably 2pm... LONG night
3. Who have you been meaning to contact, but haven’t? My father
4. What is the last lame excuse you made? I ate something really bad and couldn't work but in reality, I got "drunk" for the first and LAST time and had a bad hang over for 2 days straight (trust me... I can't drink anymore after that)
5. Have you ever watched an infomercial all the way through (one of the long ones…)? LOL yea the ones about a meat cutter hahaa it was sooo interesting!!
6. How many times did you hit the snooze button on your alarm clock today? LOL I'm off wed thru friday so no snooze today! But on average like 3 times because the snooze is only 10 minutes long


Gluttony
1. What is your overpriced yuppie beverage of choice? Hmmm juice, I don't buy expensive juice unless it's lke Figi water.
2. Meat eaters are…: ANIMAL KILLERS!! lol sike nah... I'm a meat eater so who cares?? I dont eat pork though, and rarely beef
3. What is the greatest amount of alcohol you’ve had in one sitting/outing/event? When I got drunk for the first time, I had only 6 drinks (2 shots of Patron, 1 shot of Vodka, 1 Washinton Apple, One Melon Wall, One shot of something the bartender made)... what messed me up was the fact that I had a Washington Apple and if you're a bartender, you know that it has Crown Royal in it... DARK LIQUOR so yea, that's not the most. I had 8 drinks and I was fine (2 melon ball, 2 amaretto sours, 1 sex on the beach, 1 blow job, 1 buttered nipple, and a Hypnotiq cranberry). I'm not an alcoholic, only drink every once in a while but yea... lol
4. Have you ever used a professional diet company? NOO
5. Do you prefer sweets, salty foods or spicy foods? Spicy

Lust
1. Have you ever caught yourself staring at the chest/crotch of a member of your gender of choice during a normal conversation? LOL on a girl, I work at Hooters... nuff said. I'm not a lesbian/bisexual or anything, but at the same time, it's funny but we're always comparing... yea... haha. For a guy not during a normal a* conversation haha
2. What is your favorite body part on a person of your gender of choice? I like abs. A lot of guys take time on their arms, chest, and legs, but the abs seem to be the least important
3. Have you ever been made a proposition by a prostitute? eww NOO
4. Have you ever had to get tested for an STD or pregnancy? I FAITHFULLY get tested for an STD and I've thankfully haven't had to take a pregnancy test
5. Is love at first sight really lust? HECKK yea!

Greed
1. How many credit cards do you own? None, I had one and never again lol
2. What’s your guilty pleasure store? I had to steal this one and say Victoria's Secret and Fredricks of Hollywood
3. If you had $1 million, what would you do with it? Invest invest, invest... and give much of it to my mom
4. Would you rather be rich or famous? hmmm... with fam comes riches... so famous
5. Would you accept a boring job if it meant you would make megabucks? Nah, can't do it. I HAVE to have a stimulating job that I enjoy no matter what
6. Have you ever stolen anything? We're all sinners
7. How many mp3s are on your hard drive? OMG has to be thousands


Pride
1. What is one thing you have done that you’re most proud of? Graduated from high school and became the first person in my family to go to college... and I'm almost done. PLUS, I broke this pregnancy cycle... everyone in my family has gotten pregnant before their 18th birthday enabling them to go to college... I broke the cycle, now my cousin graduated last year without a baby attending THE Ohio State and my sister is on her way :)
2. What’s one thing you’ve done that your parents are most proud of? The first question answers
3. What thing would you like to accomplish in your life? Having my own company and instead of me going to people to be their PR, having them come to me :) *superstar status!*
4. Do you get annoyed by coming in second place? 2nd is better than nothing, 1st is great, but being 2nd, you still get some kind of recognition, especially on American Idol. Many of the ppl that won were like one hot wonders, but those that came in 2nd... STILL doing it big
5. Have you ever entered a contest of skill, knowing you were of much higher skill than all the other competitors? Yea
6. Have you ever cheated on something to get a higher score? LOL yess
7. What did you do today that you’re proud of? I didn't really do anything special :/


Envy
1. What item (or person) of your friends would you most want to have for yourself? I want a Benz... and I will get it!
2. Who would you want to go on Trading Spaces with? oooo I dunno Emmanuel?
3. If you could be anyone else in the world, who would you be? I'd have to say the editor of Essence Magazine... I love her life right now lol
4. Have you ever been cheated on? Yea :(
5. Have you ever cheated? Yea... never do that again

The Randomness...

1)I seriously need better friends cause honestly... I'm tired of excuses on why you're not gonna go out tonight... on a Friday night... not a week day night... but a weekend night. LIVE A LITTLE! It's not like we're going out every single weekend.2) Speaking of partying... I need to cut down a little lol since the middle of June, I've been to The Park, Adams Morgan a few times, some birthday party in Ft.Washington, Bar Louies in Chinatown, this lounge on U Street, Ibiza Night Club... and others. Thing is, I'm not a club person, I like to just chill, but I'm not complaining. I've been having a lot of fun with my mamas :)
3) I broke my beautiful camera a week and a half a go at a party and... I had to buy a new one. Honestly... I LOVE IT!! LOL I have this new thing called the "Many Faces of Tiara"... I was playing around but it's hot!
4) If I could only have one best friend for the rest of my life, I'd choose my sister. We're >>>>likethis<<<<<
5) I need to invest in a treadmile... on the outside I dont look like I'm out of shape, but I tried to move a TV upstairs and it didn't go anywhere LOL
6) I soooo wanna delete my myspace... facebook is so much better.
7) I need to sell my car pronto! If I had a choice between a car and my own place... I'd take my own place...
8) About my blog crush lol... I shall never tell!! Outside of those clues I gave, it's kinda obviously, kinda not. If you can guess, I GUESSS I'll tell you... I GUESSS lol but you only get one try.
9) Dag, I have a taste for some 10 piece, naked, grilled daytona sauced wings from hOOTers... and the steamed shrimp!
10) If ONLY you knew what I was thinking!
Ok... so here are some photos:

This is part of my "Many Faces of Tiara" LOL


My Mamas!


ME! :)


My family from L to R... My little sister (15), my mother, my grandpa's wife, and me


Me, my sister and her best friend... GOOFY like we always are lol


I JUST found out that my grandfather is Haitian so I had to rep at the DC Carnival. I'm part Haitian, part British, part North Korean, part Cherokee Indian, and part african... LOL a MUT!


Me and my best friend for ever and ever lol repin Haiti


The FLYEST hOOter girls o Washington, D.C. lol


Me again!

What Cha Know Bout Me?

MANNNN ya'll had some good questions so here we go:

One Soulful Negro:


If you had to be someone else, someone close to you or a day, who would it be and why?

I would be my mother. Like I've said, she's been through A LOT and I've heard stories, but I want to know how she experienced it through her eyes. She say her life is harder right now than it is for me... I totally disagree



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what do you believe is your best quality?

Hmm.. that's a good one... physically or mentally? Physically I'd say my mind. Of course there are other physical things about me that are really great but HONESTLY, many people are so selfish with this question that they don't even acknowledge their mind, their wisdom and ability to learn. Mentally I have a great sense of humor. It allows me to not be able to keep a grudge over someone for more than 2 hrs and to also be able to adapt to different personalities, no matter how difficult they are to get along with.

what is your idea of a perfect date?

I'm pretty simple, old fashion, and romantic. The perfect date would have to be driving to a place with an amazing view at night(which is HARD to find in DC/Maryland/Virginia), and having a nice little picnic just me and him. That's the perfect place because it allows us to be intimate and talk to each other without the clutter of life's stresses. The view clears your mind and gives you the opportunity to tell your life story. It's perfect... and I've never experienced that EVER :( LOL

What is your secret weapon to lure in the opposite sex?

HAHA this is a good question. I HAVE no secret weapon. Really... I'm just my one-in-a-million self and apparently that's enough because it's like every guy that I've met has INSTANTLY fell in lust with me. I can't even explain it and it erks my nerves sometimes, but I'm just me. I'm not a good flirter hahaha I laugh and smile allllllll the time, I guess that's me flirting.

One celebrity you would do ANYTHING for?

WILL FREAKIN SMITH!!!!!! I love love LOVE me some Mr. Smith lol

Name the one cd you will never get tired of?

ooooo that's a good one! It's a tie between Bobby Valentino's- (Self Titled) and Erykah Badu's Mama's Gun. Those are the only songs were I can listen to them without skipping over a song.


Boooogie
If there is one quality you look for in a person your interested in what would that quality be? and why?

If I said looks weren't everything, I'd be lying, but that's not the ONE quality I look for. Though I'd have to be physically attracted to him, the ultimate neccessity is humor. I'm a person that starts busting out laughing when I just got through arguing with someone over something extremely serious... if I can't laugh everyday, I'd go OUT OF MY MIND. I need a guy that can keep up with me and no be serious all the time. There's a time a place to be serious, of course, but I'm a ha ha funny girl lol. I need a ha ha funny guy

Eb the Celeb

name one relationship you wish you could go back and do over
OOOOO that touches the heart lol. I wouldn't go back to ANY of my past relationships. They were in the past and I want to keep it that way because most of them were pure hell for me, though there is ONE that I'd go back to and never happen again. I won't say names because he's on my facebook and might come to my blog from time to time, but he knows who he is. I was with this guy for like 8 months on and off my sophomore/junior year in high school. I thought I was in love, felt it was love, but it wasn't. He was a compulsive cheater/liar that just didn't know how to tell the truth sometimes. I'd ask him what color the sky was and it would be blue but he's convience me otherwise that it was right red. I wasted my time with him because he was emotionally abusive. Never laid a hand on me, but being with him brought my self esteem WAY down. I felt that he was the only one for me for the longest, then found out that he was dated one of my good friends while we were going to different schools. I was crushed. There are other factors, BIG factors that changed my life forever that he did to me... but I will NOT go that route. Maybe in another blog, but this isn't the time. It's hard for me to talk about even 5 years later.

whats the one place you want to go before you die

That's a hard one. I just want to be able to travel alll continents before I die. That's all I ask for, especially Europe.

what about life puzzles you

RELIGION. I have sooo many questions about religion and he fact that there are enormous amounts of different religions... it confuses me. And religion factors off other questions like... how did we get on this earth, why are we here, where do we go when we die???

5 qualities your dream guy has to have
Sense of humor
Physical attraction
LOVE of music
Knowldgeable and Wise...I HAVE to have an intelligent conversation with him
Has a BIG heart... When he meets my family, they can see right through him, he's gotta have a BIG heart because that's number one for them

blog crush?

hahaha I'm gonna be a sore loser and not tell.. it's a crush!! lol I will say that he is apart of my blogring and he lives in the DC/Maryland/Virginia area (that's all I'm gonna say and it' hard to figure it out because many of the guys in my blogring are from the area)


why did you start blogging?

I have NO CLUE why I started blogging LOL. I guess because I love writing and I have a lot to say. What better way to say it in front of the public? lol but seriously, the whole purpose of this blog is for my pleasure. It's a good way for people to get to know you and a good way to know other people.

If...

I was reading this little book that I called titled If2... lol don't ask why I have the book. I have a TON of books. Many of them, for no reason they just seemed like a good buy at the time. But anyway, I think I'm going to take an "If" question once a week and answer it on the blog. Here it goes:

"If you had to name the one area of your life that you are the least self-disciplined in, what would it be?"

I would have to say school. Honestly, I don't need to be in school to do what I'm majoring in. Many people in the public relations field, especially for celebrities do not have a degree, but they know people. I know people, but I'm just doing school just to have some education on by back bone. I really don't like college. It's bites and it's annoying. I'm a BIG procrastinator when it comes to homework and studying. One thing that I hate is studying so OF COURSE I'm going to procrastinate lol


So... I'm going to leave this open and get some of my readers to ask me a question cause a lot of ya'll know nothing about me. I'll keep this post open for a while so you can ask me as many questions as you want... no limitations and I PROMISE you that I'll answer, NO MATTER what it is. :)

This should be quite interesting!! If you have a question you wanna keep anonymous, just email me at tj2626@gmail.com and i'll put my answer with you as being anonymous.

It's Been a Long Time

MANNNN... I've been busy!! I love Hooters, but it takes a lot of my time, I'm not complaing, but I need to invite more people to visit. All my fellow D.C.ers... come visit me!! lol... no seriously, go to Chinatown and ask for Tiara cause I'm so bored sometimes there...

Anywho, how's my readers doing?? LOL I have nothing at all to talk about, life has been pretty bland. Thinking about going to Adams Morgan tonight, that should be oodles of fun!! So yea... lol

This Prison

I feel like a prisoner to life...

Everything I want, I can't get
Everything I need, I have no way of getting it
Every happiness I seek is hard to find
Everytime I feel alone, there's hardly no one around

But it's like, when you don't need something... it's flowing your way
When you need to be alone, someone is always around

I don't understand. I'm quite confused.


I'm so grateful: grateful for life, grateful for shelter, grateful for health, grateful for family and friends, grateful for food and water,

But somehow... everytime I ask for something, I seem... UNGRATEFUL...


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Happy Father's Day to all the fathers, but most importantly to all the mothers that raised their children on their own... they deserve a "Happy Fathers Day" as well.

Tat Tat Tatted Up!!

I got into this little discussion with my co-worker a while back and it dawned on me again early yesterday. Me being that I have like 3 tattoos going on 4, I kind of get looked down upon by older people, but honestly, I don't care. My first tattoo holds a lot of controversy though.

So we was talking about tattoos on your lower back. At this point, he didn't know I had one on my lower back so basically, he said if you have one there, you have a tramp stamp, so youre a tramp. CLEARLY, I disagreed fully. I'm not a tramp, far from it, and I got the tattoo as "fashion" and it had nothing to do with anything sexual. Plus, it's not like it has no meaning. I straight up told him that and he tried to change his opinion talking about... "well, not all girls with them are tramps". I was like, whatever! And walked away.


I don't understand why people think that. I know plenty of people that have lower back tattoos and aren't tramps... well that I know of lol. It annoys the heck outta me, but I guess all are entitled to their own opinion... UgH.

How do you guys feels about tattoos??